A Mindset of Success
Dec 16, 2022
Entrepreneurship is not for the faint of heart.
This isn’t something IG will tell you though, of course. From the outside looking in it looks like everyone is constantly shitting rainbows, scaling with no bumps, & living life without any stress.
And it is a load of horse shit.
Instagram is a highlight reel & most people are simply not willing to share the duality that comes with growing a business. In an age (which is crumbling) of it HAS TO BE ease & flow for you to be “doing it right” or “following strategy & authority” people are scared to be honest about what it really takes.
The truth is this: Knock down the coach for selling ease & flow but that’s what people buy! People are less likely to buy “you are going to cry, it is going to be hard, you will want to blow up your business… but it will SOOOOO be worth every moment of it to live your dreams, help others live theirs & bring your deepest medicine to the world”.
We live in a world of immediacy. I want it now. I want her 10 year business in under 1 year. I want her success without the stress she went through.
Yes, you will have beautiful highs. In the last year alone I have had clients:
🦅Celebrate being invited to speak on massive world stages with leading global companies.
🦅Be featured in magazines.
🦅Scale past 6 figure months.
🦅Retire their husband.
🦅Buy the property.
🦅Reposition their brand & sell out offers in under 48 hours.
🦅Travel the world.
🦅Finally write the book.
But what you DON’T necessarily see is what it took to get there or bumps along the way. And simply, the reality is, most of my clients aren’t even coaches so it has nothing to do with their brand or business to even speak of it.
Things like:
➛ Feeling lonely scaling a business.
➛ Relationship breakdowns or divorces.
➛ Health scares.
➛ Lulls in the business.
I, myself, have been honest this year about things I would NOT launch again, things that went wrong & why, as well as it being one of the hardest years in business before the breakthroughs that happened in the final quarter.
What got me through? What gets my clients that smash their goals through?
➛ MINDSET WORK DAILY. It is a non negotiable for me.
➛ Breathing deeper through the stress or discomfort to allow myself/ themselves the capacity to hold more.
➛ Continuing to move, show up, & stay grounded even when things feel like they are falling apart.
➛ Nurturing & cultivating resiliency & grit.
➛ Being dedicated to, and surrendered to, something so much bigger than simply the next launch, a money goal, etc.
➛ Now asking how to get started, but taking action & asking for support in refinement.
The highs cannot come without the lows, AND the point is never to always be in the lows OR the highs. It is the fullness of the human experience that we are here for and within that always choosing how we GET to lead ourselves through it.
If you are looking to be supported in the highs AND lows, with some loving asskickery to get you through the stuckness when it creeps up, I welcome you into ICONIC, my 6 month mastermind.
Be dedicated to the journey, not a quick fix. Be dedicated to growth over a lifetime, not a one off 10k month. Be dedicated to YOU & your dreams. Be dedicated to holding it ALL, and expanding within it.
Prices will go up as of January 1st to reflect the level of support & content that is available upon joining. If you know that a space is yours I welcome you to walk into the room, the door is open.
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