Attachment style with money: The Avoider
Mar 28, 2022
Important conversations around money, the ones that create true lasting change, go deeper than holding a vibe or fixing your mindset (although those are ABSOLUTELY critical as well in a holistic approach to truly healing & transcending our current reality with wealth).
The issue is, however, this ALSO lives in our nervous system & attachment style. You can change your vibe, you can change your mindset, yet if your BODY is remembering something very different you will always default to the safety you feel in your nervous system.
Always.
The Holistic Psychologist recently said “I believe that everything we have been calling mental illness is actually from nervous system dysregulation”.
The same is true for money & our relationship with it.
The reality is:
💵 If mindset work or doing a meditation 6 times a day was enough more people would be rolling in cash.
💵 If buying more crystals was enough, more people would be in overflow.
💵 If posting more content was the answer, every content creator would be a multi-millionaire.
💵 And if simply making more money fixed the issue we wouldn’t see so many wealthy women burned out, exhausted, unfulfilled, & STILL in an unhealthy relationship with money… Or simply quitting. I can’t even count how many powerful women, who were making BANK, left the industry since I started.
The issue is not in what you do but what your roots tell you who you BE.
What mindset work (in isolation), crystals, meditation, etc attempts to do is simply trim the branches that no longer produce the fruit, yet, for anyone that has had a beloved plant or tree develop root rot knows:
That only works for so long before you address the true issue.
Everything in nature in life works in an upstream/ downstream fashion. It isn’t only one aspect of the ecosystem that is impacted, but many, by the root cause.
So yes, trim the branches, AND, heal the roots.
I also do not believe in using our attachment style with wealth as a lifelong excuse to maintain a fixed mindset or stay where we are, whether where we are is $100, 000 months or $1, 000 months.
It requires bravery & courage to be everything you came here to be. And it requires bravery & courage to earn what you came here to earn.
It is a choice to heal the roots or allow them to continue rotting.
Something special is coming.
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