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I'm a Selfish Bitch... But for All the Right Reasons

#bossbabe #humandesign #manifestation #moneymanifestation #moneymaven #selfdevelopment #spiritualbosslady Apr 13, 2020

 

Friend,

 

I need to come clean about something.  I need to get something off my chest.  Maybe you can relate, maybe you can't.  Maybe you will unsubscribe.  But my people will get it and that is who I am speaking to.

 

Do you ever feel like you just can't help yourself you are SO damn selfish with your time and what you want to be doing? 

 

This is actually THE reason I have never had kids! I am selfish with my time!

 

I can't tell you how many times a DAY I feel torn between whether to work on my business or spend time relaxing with my husband once in a while ... and I have to be honest here (even though I'm scared to say this) - My preference is working on my business.

 

In fact, I (Pre covid) didn't visit my horses more because I am SO passionate and wrapped up in by business it is hard to peel myself away!

 

I am truly a Generator in her element!

 

My eyes are covered right now. Please don't throw things at me! I swear I love love LOVE being a horse mum/ Equestrian  and I truly love just relaxing with my hubby.  He is literally my world.

 

But, real talk? There is no sweeter feeling than the satisfaction of knowing I showed up in my business today and I did the work I know I am born to do.

 

The work I was BORN to do and birth into this world.

 

That I served amazing badass women at a level I once only dreamed of.

 

And that I helped other revolutionary leaders do the same thing I have done, money magnetism wise.

 

Feel free to opt-out of my emails now if you like (you can unsubscribe down the bottom, it's easy!) but I'm not gonna pretend any longer - I am a workaholic, and proud of it.

 

I am a Generator after all!  A wildly passionate, a bit crazy, certainly in my own unique brand of crazy Generator!

 

 And you know what else? I am really freaking selfish about getting time for my work. 

 

I leave the house in a mess most days. 

 

My bills don't get paid until I get the reminder notice (not because I don't wanna pay them or because I don't have the money, just cause I forget!)! 

 

I have a TON of stuff I've been meaning to bring to the tack store to sell for AGES. 

 

I get mildly irritated when my husband or ANYONE speaks to me when I'm working, especially if it's when I'm writing something channeled and I am IN THE ZONE. 

 

I will go out of my way to avoid people, situations, meetings and tasks - pretty much to whatever extent I need to - if it means I can get to be alone with my laptop. 

 

I find small talk EXCRUCIATING because I'd rather be creating in my biz, sending something out there into the world.

 

I could go on and on here, but I don't want to appear any more of a selfish bitch than what I already am! 

 

But here's the thing my friend, the thing about being such a god-darn selfish bitch! 

 

Because I am so selfish and INSIST on having my mornings to myself I have created a 6 figure ( and rising) business in 6 months. 

 

Because I am so selfish and REFUSE to clean my house or tidy up (actually it's more like forget or not notice than refuse) I spend an extra hour a day creating new sh*t for my people (that's you) and launching it, making money and being of service. 

 

Because I am so selfish and I avoid boring social situations like the plague I have an extra 3 or so hours a week which I've found is more than enough time to come up with, draft out and launch an entirely new product.

 

Because I'm so selfish and I deliberately lock myself away from my husband for a few hours each afternoon, my new and bright shiny ideas get DONE and then they get marketed, sold, leveraged and dusted. And I get to make a MASSIVE impact on this world.

 

Because I am so selfish I say no to doing favours or pesky admin tasks and instead act like a prima donna at times in my business and life and as a result my average monthly income is more than most make in a year.

 

And because I am so unbelievably selfish, such a god-damn selfish bitch in fact, I have built up an online company that makes $30+ thousand a month, and growing which means my husband and I are fast tracking our way to our dream farm, our house in Australia (Purchasing in 2020!) and Scott's retirement from policing.  I honestly can't wait for the day he retires.  It is a driving force for my every day life.

 

And because I am SUCH a selfish bitch it is only a matter of time before we bring my boys (the horses) home and build our farm animal sanctuary where we can not only save hundreds of animals but fund animal rescue around the world.  AROUND. THE. WORLD.  I also desire to build a wildlife rescue to help more wild life!

 

And because I am just RIDICULOUSLY selfish I can now choose NOT to work anytime I please. In fact, if it wasn't for covid we could pick up and vacation whenever, whereever we choose.

 

Sister, you might not naturally be a selfish bitch like I am.  And I work with a ton of non energy types (Projectors and Reflectors) that their "Selfish bitch" looks different than the energy types.

 

But I'm guessing that if you're reading it's not because you're aghast at the awfulness that is me. Or maybe, who knows!

 

It's because you can relate. 

 

Because you are RELIEVED to hear you're not alone. 

 

Because you need somebody to tell you that you're NOT a bad Mum, wife, partner or friend and that it doesn't make you a bad person to want to be alone with your laptop, your ideas, and a never-say-die determination to make your dream business and life HAPPEN. 

 

Because you need somebody to tell you that it's okay to be a selfish bitch. 

 

That it might just not only be OKAY but that it is absolutely NOT okay to not be! 

 

Because the truth, the truth that I KNOW you know but yet tell yourself you are just trying to 'justify' with, is simple - Us selfish bitches get sh*t done. 

 

We dream big, LOVE HARD, act fast, think later, and run at a speed so dizzying most can't even see us let alone try to keep up. 

 

We light up the world every day with our own particular brand of crazy. 

 

We leave a wake of devastation in our path at times but if we do we do it in the name of creating something bolder, more beautiful, more transformational than ever existed before. And we do it in an aligned way, knowing full well other peoples emotional waves are none of our business as long as we have the highest good of all involved.

 

We take risks. 

 

We deeply follow our inner authority no matter how crazy it seems.

 

We constantly take aligned action.

 

But if we do things that make others raise an eyebrow at how selfish we are it's because we believe, no we KNOW that in order to create the life we truly dream about for ourselves and for our family we must make choices that many simply won't make. 

 

To be in the 1% minority we must not act like the majority.

 

We must do what others won't so that we can live like they can't. 

 

We must do what others won't so we can HELP the world like others can't.

 

I'm proud to be such a selfish bitch my friend. 

 

I am changing the world because of it and shortly will be saving thousands of animals a year because of it.

 

I, daily, awaken more badass souls that will also change the world because of it.

 

And if you're with me, then you should be proud to.

 

Us soul led world changing revolutionary selfish bitches have to stick together! 

 

Which brings me to the reason I actually sat down to write to you (I did NOT expect it to go in this manner!) - I've created a new program, MAGNETIC WEALTH.

 

It's a place for driven, fast-thinking, soul led, revolutionary entrepreneurs who know that in order to live the life they truly CRAVE they must be willing to do the work and take action now.

 

In Magnetic Wealth we are diving DEEP into the HIGH level mindset and next level Human Design content, including my BRAND SPANKING NEW Success on the Material Plane Human Design & Wealth Alchemy program! 

 

This is the place to become an alchemist.  Transmute conditioning and not self behaviours to alignment and pure magical GOLD!

 

Receive your Ph fucking D in money alchemy.

 

This is the place for the Priestesses.  The witches (or warlocks ;) ). The badass revolutionary soul led leaders.

 

The New Earth Leaders.


The game changers.

 

Those ready to step into the FULLNESS of their power and change money from a root centre/ splenic centre issue to a HEART centre & G Centre soul led desire.

 

This is for those that are already in their power but desire that 1 degree ( or 2 maybe!) energetic and mindset shift to create absolute gold.

 

This is for those that are selfish, but in a world changing, wave making way.  Those that are going to do MASSIVE GOOD with massive amount of money.

 

For those that have a fire burning so hot inside they can't turn it off and need an outlet for it!

 

For those that have products and services that will change this world and are ready to be ABUNDANTLY paid for them!

 

I have a special price ONLY available until April 18th for those that are action takers and KNOW what their soul desires.

 

I also only have 5 VIP places left where you receive a 45 minute 1:1 call for me at a FRACTION of the typical cost!

 

I can't wait to support you!

 

And remember:  Allow life to come to you then take messy inspired fucking action!  You, Priestess, have so much to offer this world.  And I can't wait to see the magic you create.

 xoAE

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