Is it is Not Self Making Your Decisions?

Is it the not self, hidden as “alignment”, making your decisions?

I will often see online or hear in my programs when people are new to me:

“I am a Manifestor so I don’t like being told what to do”.

“I am a Manifestor I am meant to be bouncing between ideas”.

“I am a Projector/ Reflector, I just don’t have the energy”.

“I am a Manifesting Generator, I am meant to have a lot of ideas/ always be juggling a lot”.

“I am a Generator, I can’t have a long term strategy”.

And after helping THOUSANDS of people scale businesses by design (upwards into multiple millions per year as sustainable scalable income), helping directors secure deals with production companies, helping actors hone their craft, and more, I can say that we hold endless stories that hold us back from creating the success we desire, and many of those stories feel very real to us.

Maybe you can relate to one of the below not self pressures that can hide very effectively as our true self:

One thing I would like to add is that while I often speak of the not self in terms of openness you can ALSO be in an unhealthy state in terms of your definition.  In fact, I would go out on a limb to say that for most people this causes MORE issues because it feels more like you than what you bring in through your openness.

Having a mentor/ coach as an objective guide to help you build a business by design, regardless of how much knowledge you KNOW about Human Design/ BG5, is critical for amplifying success & collapsing timelines.

What I recommend in your journey working with mentors, as well as your journey with Human Design:

⚡️Be coachable.  I never tell my clients what to do.  I help open their mind to seeing things in a different way, including themselves & business, & I then support them in building a business that is truly in alignment with who they are. A mindset of “I don’t like being told what to do”/ “I do what I want” will inevitably lead to resistance in business, especially if you desire clients to come to you for guidance & support!

⚡️ Be curious.  Rather than “this is just how I am” be open & curious.  You may be surprised at what comes through when you release everything you think you know to be true & begin looking at things in a new way.

⚡️Think long term.  I will die on this hill.  NO design has the energy to go month to month in their business.  It is not scalable, it is not sustainable, & it will destroy your nervous system (and health) long term.  Think BIG, think long term, and work backwards.  Sure, shit may shift.  No one can ever truly see what their destiny is.  Don’t worry about that.  If you constantly worry about what is to come you will never take action on what is true now.

⚡️Notice patterns.  You can also find this in Saturn (see my video on YouTube).  To grow a business you must be willing to look critically at what is working & what isn’t, including beliefs, identities, habits, & behaviours.  Be willing to look at these daily rather than just at the end of a launch, quarter, or year.

If you are looking for an objective observer & guide in building your business by design I welcome you into ICONIC.  This is my EPIC mastermind that helps you build a business your way.  Strategy & logic is my jam, and I love helping my clients build truly scalable & sustainable businesses.

I also have 1 spot open for 1:1 coaching to begin mid November.

DM for more information or check out: www.ashleybrianaeve.com for more details.

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