Revolutionary Soul Led Leaders

Apr 09, 2020

The leaders that struggle to break through are the ones always looking for answers outside of themselves.... Always chasing the next "hit" of approval or "next best thing" to fix the resistance they are feeling.

This may be bold for someone that coaches Human Design to say, since that provides a framework for how we are meant to operate in life but I am seeing a massive issue in the world right now.

The things that were once there to FREE us are now constraining us. We are boxing ourselves in when it was meant to unleash the fullness of our power and give us permission to be ALL of us.

We can chase answers all day long but at some point we need to go inwards and just do the damn work.

I don't care what anyone says NLP won't "fix" your limiting beliefs, long term, if you aren't willing to do the work. I don't care who that pisses off, it's true. I have been a counsellor, using NLP, for a lot longer than many have even known what NLP is.

Energy healing won't "fix" your blocked energy if you aren't willing to do the work. It is like going to a massage therapist once and not dealing with the fucking tightness yourself at home and wondering why the tightness comes back. And I was a personal trainer so I saw this happen a fucking lot!

Human Design won't "fix" your resistance if you aren't willing to go inwards and do the work. And it sure as shit won't be useful to you if you use it as a way to either justify or lean into excuses on why you are a certain way.

Need an example? "Well, I am a Projector therefore not here to work therefore I can only work on my business 2 hours a day". Two days later "Why is my business not growing"....😑

I get asked so many times in a week how I do x, y or z. And there seems to be confusion over me saying I just sit my ass down and do it. I don't allow myself to squirm out of it. Yes, I have a coach to work me through the bullshit because we all have it.

But I sit down and do it. I work through the bullshit and show the fuck up.

There is no quick fix and throwing your money at every practitioner in the hopes that one may have the magic pill to fix you isn't the answer.

I told two clients to stop buying shit this week. Not because I don't support their growth or because I don't support them supporting other badass leaders.

But because it is an evasion to doing the damn work needed to be done and trying to find the magic fix for it.

It doesn't fucking exist.

YOU are the magic, you always have been. And only YOU can unleash the fucking badassery that is under the surface.

And yes, I have a different approach to Human Design because 1) I am trained by the official schools but 2) I don't allow ANYONE to use it as a crutch or excuse.

It is a way to freedom. But in freedom you can't become fixated on it. If you have an open mind centre and you always think "Fuck, the not self world is focusing on shit that doesn't matter"... Guess what you will do...

Focus on shit that doesn't matter... Like the fact your mind centre is, in that moment, focusing on shit that doesn't matter!

Human Design is like the bumper lanes on the bowling alley or the river banks guiding water.

It guides your energy. But the truth of the matter is no gate will provide a magic fix. YOU must do the work and show up as the powerful fucking leader you are.

And you have to be willing to see YOU held the keys all along.

And only YOU can unleash your power.

And with that realization, on my coaching call, I realized that even I have been boxing in the fullness of my power and my message.

So many of us, and I am including myself in that as I ALWAYS am looking for continual growth, have barely tapped into the fullness of our power.

Your purpose in this world is to be the light of the world. To bring peace through your unique gifts. To be the beacon to others ready to rise up.

And every time you choose to give your power away, to anything, you choose fear and unhappiness over forgiveness and love.

Human Design teaches us to come back to US being our inner authority. A freedom to allow our freak flag to shine. To allow our particular brand of crazy to be our guiding light.

Use it for that. Not as another box or noose around your creativity and power.

What would happen in your life if you went all in. If you gave it YOUR all.

If you saw the power within your design and energetics. The power within your gifts and showed up every day from that place.

Didn't allow yourself to squirm out of the tough shit or tough questions.

Stuck with it no matter how hard it got, how long it took or what your reality current showed.

CHOOSE to shine your light regardless of anything that is going on in the world.

CHOOSE to be the next level version of yourself now.

CHOOSE to step into the FULLNESS of your power.

And CHOOSE to do the fucking work instead of constantly chasing answers outside of yourself.

This is where the magic happens.

This is where abundance flows.

This is where you merge with the Quantum.

I have 1 spot open for 1:1 coaching, beginning later April, and a super fucking powerful surprise coming later today!

Now just go out and do the damn thing you are avoiding.

xoAE

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