Decide how things get to go for you.

Decide you get to be wealthy AF from your unique gifts.

That speaking about aliens, dragons, mystical shit, allows you to be abundantly paid because it is YOUR soul work.

Decide how things get to go for you.

Decide how you are treated by those in your life, community, & clients.

Decide what type of clients you want & that it gets to be easy as fuck.

Decide what you are available for & who you attract.

Shift your energy field to literally energetically say “I am not available for fuckery”.

And sure, we all will scrape our knees.  

We will go through trial & error, regardless of our profile.

Yet, can you decide that the fuckery that happens, the moment where you forgot who the fuck you are, & let down your boundaries happened FOR you to recenter you, ground you deeper, & grow the roots required to expand your energy field & ability to receive into even higher levels?

This year I got burned out. 

A cabin in the woods with no internet was looking pretty solid as a life choice.

This didn’t happen because of business or launching or anything.

I love my business.

I love what I do.

I got burned out because I bent over backwards to make shit happen for people & through that opened myself up to being walked on.

I opened myself up for fuckery.

I let the noise in & attracted nonsense that literally just blows my mind (in disbelief) as I look back on some of the fuckery from this year…

Not even just the fuckery within the business but even people stealing everything from my YouTube & podcast to teach people Human Design.

So. Fucking. Cringey.

The business grew & expanded…

Yet now I am burning it down.

And this was a lesson that had to be learned again.  I learned it when I was a counsellor & left the field from burnout…

My belief, from being a counsellor & now online business owner, is that most burn out isn’t from the WORK, it is from shitty boundaries & opening yourself up to fuckery from the illusion of “service”.

And I haven’t spoken about any of this just yet this year as I always process things FIRST, I go still in the face of obstacles first (my format energy in my bodygraph), THEN when ready I come out with the lessons…

But we must go into the shadows first to extract the gold prior to being able to help others with it.

I am always grateful for these lessons.  If my business was nothing but rainbows & sunshine 24/7 I would not be equipped to help others with the very real shit that comes up as you scale your business.

We are simply human after all.

My wisdom today:

Set expectations on how things get to go & energetically hold that space so that it is felt even when you are not speaking.

You don't have to create offers at every price point if you don’t want to.  In fact, if there is any wisdom I can share, typically the lower priced offers cause the most headaches & problems.  

Also, often what you see, in the high earners (not all the time of course), is low offers are the trip wires or funnels…  

Nothing wrong with that… It just isn’t how their business is being made.

You don’t HAVE TO do anything in business that you don’t want to…

In fact, for the rebels & soul led creators there is no faster way to kill the flame of creativity than have to’s & shoulds.

You GET TO be spiritual & hold high standards.

You GET TO be spiritual & charge luxury pricing.

You GET TO be here to serve & be abundantly paid.

You GET TO be aligned with your design & know that you sure as shit are not here for everyone.

The more you let your crazy out…

The more your people show up.

I am tired of the growing narrative online.

The shaming of people charging certain amounts.

Shaming the coaching industry.

Shaming people with big goals.

I am just not here for it.

There is a lot I am no longer here for.

And, I am sure there is a lot that would serve you to no longer be available for.

First, you have to draw your line in the sand.

Do that today.

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